Settling in the Service


Every child is unique and adjusts to our service in their own way. We prioritise evidence-based practices to help foster healthy attachments between primary educators and children, making the settling-in process smoother and more comfortable for each child.

​​What is separation anxiety?

Handling Separation Anxiety
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​​ Handy Tips for Separation Anxiety

Here are some handy tips for children new to early education settings and experiencing separation anxiety:

Establish a Consistent Goodbye Routine: Create a simple, predictable routine when dropping off, like a special hug, high five, or a phrase like “I’ll be back soon!” to provide comfort and reassurance.

Keep Goodbyes Short and Positive: Prolonged goodbyes can heighten anxiety. Keep the farewell brief but warm, and avoid sneaking away, as this can cause distrust.

Practice Separation Gradually: If possible, start with shorter periods apart and gradually increase the time, helping your child adjust to being away from you.

Comfort Items: Let your child bring a favorite toy, blanket, or photo that reminds them of home for comfort throughout the day.

Stay Calm and Confident: Children often take emotional cues from adults. Show confidence in the daycare experience, and try to stay calm during drop-offs.

Talk About the Day Ahead: Discuss the fun activities they’ll be doing, friends they’ll see, and how you’ll be back to pick them up, helping them look forward to their time at daycare.

Establish a Goodbye Ritual at Home: Practice saying goodbye at home with a pretend daycare scenario, so they get used to the concept of separation in a safe, controlled setting.

Positive Reinforcement: Praise your child when they successfully transition to daycare, reinforcing their bravery and making them feel proud.

Maintain Consistency: Children thrive on routines. Try to keep drop-off and pick-up times consistent, as it helps them feel more secure.

Talk with Educators: Communicate openly with educators about your child's feelings and needs. They can offer extra comfort and support during the transition.